The Secret To Keeping A Lover
Would you like to know the secret to keeping a partner and maintainig
a healthy, fulfilling and long lasting relationship?
Let’s face it. Keeping a relationship or marriage is not
easy. After the initial period of courtship and excitement of falling
in love, we often find ourselves facing the challenge of keeping
that relationship or marriage alive.
Is there anything one can do to keep a lover? Yes, there is! Master
these 3 steps.
(1) Understand that what you want is not what your partner wants.
(2) Know the secrets of what human beings wants and desires. A
genuine understanding of human nature will give you that "unfair"
advantage over others to keeping and maintaining a blissful and
healthy relationship with your lover or partner. (This is an important
subject and it'll be discussed in a separate page here.)
(3) Cultivate and maintain your unique individuality. This includes
having a life of your own, keeping your passions and hobbies alive,
pursuing your lifelong dreams, and keeping your circle of buddies
and friends. That (the sum total of them all) is what attracts
your partner to you! Don't lose it.
Knowing just the above 3 principles is not enough.
Want to know what separates those people who are successful in
keeping their lovers from those who are not?
Listen carefully now. Those who are successful in keeping their
partners know this 4th principle in addition to those given above.
(4) Understand and know what your partner wants and give it to
them.
Anyone can give you tons of strategies and methods to follow to
keep a lover or partner and any person can apply these into their
relationship life.
However, the really the successful one is the person who has mastered
the last principle - understand and know what your partner wants
and give it to them.
So, how do I know what my partner wants? Have you ever faced the
difficulty of getting just this information when you try to ask
your lover or partner?
Don't ask them. They won't say it, or rather, they find it difficult
to say exactly what they want. You see, people very often do not even
know what they want! If you ask them, you'll find yourself getting
frustrated instead.
Just be observant. Very often, they are already telling you what
they want and need - as demonstrated by their behaviour and prioritized
actions. Ask yourself, what overriding value is most important to
him - is it work, career, his hobbies, wealth, his friends?
Talking about reading anyone's mind, I love Dan Kennedy's technique.
This is his secret #2 - No B.S. Truth About Selling. The secret
is this:
"You don't have to be a psychic to read someone's mind - he
or she will read it out loud to you, with a little encouragment!"
I've applied this principle to my relationship with my partner,
and it works wonders.
By the way, if you can, get Dan's book on "No B.S. Sales
Success!" It is an amazing book, and you'll be surprised
to learn that many of what he teaches inside this book can be applied
to your life and relationship in many, many ways.
He wrote a small book about this subject: How To Ready Anyone's
Mind in 1993. It has been out of print for years, but is included
as a free Bonus in his brand new and updated book No B.S. Sales
Success.
Get Dan Kennedy's books here today.
Love and Joy,
Cucan Pemo
Best
Selling Author and Publisher for
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